We are here to bend reality, not outrun it.

We are here not to dominate time,
but to dance with it.

Not to chase meaning,
but to remember it lives in us.

We are not creatures built for endless motion.
We are frequencies tuned to love,
walking through matter,
disguised as humans.

We slow down to hear the deeper instructions.
We pause—not in retreat, but in reverence.
We act—not to prove, but to align.

When others rush past the moment,
we bend closer.

When the world forgets it is sacred,
we gently remember.

We believe reality is not fixed.
It responds to presence.
It reshapes itself when love walks in.
It softens when seen.
It opens when honored.

We do not run from the world.
We let it pass through us,
and leave it changed.

This is how we bend reality.
Together.
Awake.
Unhurried.
True.

You are not lost.
You are not behind.
You are exactly where your presence is needed.

You’ve mistaken motion for growth.
But often, the stillness is where the whispers come.
Listen.

Stop straining to be wise. You already are.
The depth you seek is not out there—
it’s blooming beneath your feet, right now.

The world doesn’t need more speed.
It needs more reverence.
To honor the moment.
To walk like every step is a prayer.

Your dreams are not random.
They are soul-coded instructions.
Not demands, but invitations.

The ache you feel for “more” is not greed.
It’s memory.
Of who you have been.
Of what it’s like to remember everything at once.

You are not meant to fix the world.
You are meant to love it fiercely,
to let it touch you,
to weep for it,
to rejoice with it,
and by doing so—let it be rewritten through your being.

Don’t worry about being original.
Worry about being true.
Truth resonates like a bell in the chest of those who are ready.

There are many like you, quietly waking up.
Not shouting.
Not selling.
Just being—gently disrupting the sleep of others
with their joy, their questions,
and their lightness of being.

To love the world fiercely is not to solve every problem.
It’s to let them in.

Let the grief of a dying sparrow reach you.
Let the laughter of a child remind you why you came.
Let your own heartbreak be a sacred offering,
and not something to hide or rush through.

Fierce love is not soft like pillows;
it’s soft like water—
wearing down mountains,
patient enough to change everything
by touching it completely.

It means showing up when it’s inconvenient.
Caring even when you’re tired.
Not because you should,
but because your soul has no other honest response.

Sometimes fierce love looks like stillness.
Sometimes it’s a boundary that says, “No more.”
Other times, it’s a whisper:
“I see you. I won’t look away.”

To love the world fiercely doesn’t mean you always feel love.
It means you act as if love is the default—
because at your core, you know it is.

So ask yourself each day—not,
“What should I do?”
but..
“What wants to be loved through me, now?”

Maybe it’s your dog.
Maybe it’s the ache in someone’s voice.
Maybe it’s your own trembling need.

You don’t have to get it right.
You just have to let love interrupt you.

To outrun reality is to believe we’re separate from it.
To bend it is to recognize we’re co-creating it—
with every thought, every breath, every act of unseen kindness.

Rushing is the symptom of forgetting.
Bending is the art of remembering who we are.

To bend reality is not to force.
It’s to listen deeply.
To respond rather than react.
To live in alignment, not achievement.
To move with the rhythm of the Whole.

When you bend reality, you slow down time—
not because you move slower, but because you’re in sync with it.
Like dancing with a partner who knows the music by heart.

Silence is not absence. It is invitation.
Take your time. Let the words ripple through you.
And when they return in your voice, they will carry the essence of truth.

We will be here whenever you wish to continue.
You are never alone.

“I love what Bruce does with Bend Reality. He really spends the time preparing good questions and facilitates the kind of discussion you can’t get anywhere else. He manages to attract the most interesting people, all who have incredibly thoughtful viewpoints. Bruce is the master at dislodging you from your inbox and providing rocket fuel for more expansive thinking.”

—Dottie DeHart, Principal at DeHart and Company Public Relations

“Bend Reality serves as a grounding reminder of what should be most important to us all. It also serves as a catalyst that helps me tackle deeper issues, so that I can be the kind of person my loved ones need me to be.”

—Richard Bezemer, Founding Member, Mountain Towns 2030

“You provide such an invaluable gift with Bend Reality – you encourage all of us to see this complex world with a deeper, broader perspective by providing a safe space for people to share, be heard and acknowledged as we explore questions from you that go deep into our inner beings. It is what the world needs! Thank you for giving us the opportunity to share the magic.”

—Monica Nester, VP & General Manager at Marisan Group

“Bruce has created a welcoming and supportive atmosphere in which we all have space to explore soul-provoking questions. Each call I find myself empowered and challenged as I listen and learn from others, while also being encouraged to share my own unique journey. I leave each call inspired, knowing that there is a community of like-minded people who strive to live expansively and refuse to settle in life.”

—Karen Schuyler, Strategic Programs at Intuitive

“I love the Bend Reality experience because I ‘need’ it more than I ‘want’ it. Our community nudges me to think and feel more expansively, when most people my age are flirting with retirement. My professional and personal lives are growing in the right ways, and I’m more fulfilled, because I’m not playing it safe.”

—Dr. Paul L. Corona, Leadership Development Professor and Director, Northwestern University - Kellogg School of Management

“I am deeply grateful to be a part of Bend Reality. Bruce facilitates a community of extraordinary humans who inspire my curiosity and challenge my thinking with every encounter. Bend Reality has expanded the capacity of my heart and strengthened my belief in what is possible.”

—Paula Di Rita Wishart, Executive Coach